A tough relationships question this week. Let’s dive straight in
Question: how can u have arelationship if ue afraid of commitment
Answer: You have to give yourself permission to trust another person. There could be something in your past that makes you a little nervous about getting hurt. It's the chance we take when we fall in love, but it's a gamble and we aren't promised anything, I mean when in life are we promised anything so why should love be different.
Choose your mate wisely, make sure he's committed and respectful, make your intentions clear and as does he. Don't jump in too quick and don't be too judgmental.
With joy sometimes comes sorrow but don't deprive yourself of the wonderful feeling of being in love. What's the expression 'It's better to have love and lost than not love at all".
BY letting go of the past,and feeling the present
Go with your heart and know what you want from life and a relationship.Accept every one is an individual and is different and if it feels right just go for it, life is too short to miss out
Just ask yourself if the person in question is worth getting hurt over. If not, then move on. But if you think spending any amount of time with another person is worth more than maybe ending up alone again, just do that. Think about THEM, and yourself.
If you are afraid of commitment it is usually because you are afraid to commit to a certain person. When you meet the person you truly want to be with then your fears will most likely subside.
you need tolive abit and grow a lot
try keeping a pet alive for 2yrs and they say if you can do that your ready for a relationship
well i dont think u cud hav a relationship if u r afraid of commitment. on the other hand u may not b afraid of commitment, mayb u dont luv her/he. i remember wen i was in luv 4 the first time i doubted myself and it was so great cause i just got out of a really bad relationship to be with him. it was so good, i didnt think it was real. i started jokin around about this 1 thing, the next thing i know lies from close friends to both of us, we believed them and were broke up and never had guts to speak to each other. dont be afraid if u really luv them take the chance. u cant always b afraid eventually u will commit to luv even if it takes months or years just talk to her/him.
You don't need to have a commitment to have a relationship, Most people would desire one but you don't have to have one.