What a great relationships question:
Another love question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:
You are in love with X's (your friend) girlfriend Y. So who is not believing you????
Firstly dude, she is Taken with the capital T. So please find someone else. Its not decent and nor its ethical. You want to ruin a friendship just because your hormones are going crazy??? Sit and think and then decide…
.:Fishie:.
A tough relationships question this week. Let’s dive straight in
She's started a new job (at 23 years old it's her first job)and spends a lot of time with colleagues and after work functions. I email her cell every day, but get only occasional replies. We've seen each other once in the last month. And yet we're still together and the prospect of parting is too much to think about.
Am I being impatient, needy, and insecure? I need more loving than I'm getting, so the impending anniversary is kind of messing with my mind a little.
I'd appreciate hearing someone else's perspective on this. God Bless you & have a lovely day.
This breaking up and getting back together thing concerns me though, and might have something to do with it all. Sounds like something hasn't been going right in your relationship. Perhaps something neither one of you is even aware of. You might want to get some councling on this.
But you should sit down with her and talk to her about the lack of attention she's giving you. I wouldn't expect her to e-mail you back every day on her cell, and she may feel smothered by too much attention. It may be that you aren't giving her enough space, and she's withdrawn. It may also be that she enjoys your e-mails, even if she doesn't respond all the time. Talk with her about how she feels about it all, and ask her if you could improve in any area.
Give it some time and be patient, but she should do her best on this to let you know that she cares about you, and that even with the new job, she still loves you and more than intends to make time for you. This may not happen instantly, so don't be too pushy, but do be plainspoken and truthful. But, if she refuses to at least care about your feelings on this, and that not caring continues, you may want to look into finding a new girlfriend.
Well here’s a question I just had to answering straight away:
We’ve had a reader question come in on the subject of dating. Let’s take a look:
I just love answering these dating questions. Here’s another:
Another internet dating question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:
A lot of online dating services are little more than "meat markets". As a female, you can expect a lot useless attention. But if you can get past that, and keep your head straight, I think it is a useful way to cast your net a lot further; don't get too carried away, though - finding a guy (or girl) in a distant place can be its own can of worms.
I met my girlfriend through an online service. We are both middle-aged, intelligent people. She had been on the site for a long time, and had been patiently reading all the mail she received (and answering only polite ones). Then one day she and I connected. We are very close to perfect for each other, and have a wonderful, rewarding relationship (1 1/2 years so far).
The thing is, online dating has the potential to help you get around all the clumsy, awkward stuff of getting to know someone in person, physical presence I mean. You can tell a lot about someone by what they say, and how they say it.
At the time I joined this service, I didn't have much time for dating. Maybe I'm a little different, but I did not write to every pretty face I saw. Actually, I only wrote to maybe 5 women in the two months I used the service. I'd read their profiles, of course, but not take everything they said at face value. I was more interested in how they said it; that told me a lot about them.
I was incredibly lucky to find a fantastic woman so quickly, who soon felt the same way about me. It won't always work, that is for sure.
But it can!
A tough internet dating question this week. Let’s dive straight in
This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:
This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:
