This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:
Question: There's this guy who loves me to pieces, but i have done something that i really shouldnt have, and it was really nasty on him. What can i do, to prove tht i love him, and gain his trust back?
Sex doesnt work- I've already been there and tried that. But its not the same!
oh… and he saud that i'm not allowed to say that i love him, because i have to earn the right to!
Sex doesnt work- I've already been there and tried that. But its not the same!
oh… and he saud that i'm not allowed to say that i love him, because i have to earn the right to!
Answer: Cook me some good Chili Dogs with Cheese and I be a smilling. ;-D
Pain is a hard thing in love. Once a person is hurt, it does something to the Heart. I love my woman very much, I tell her this everyday. I, also, tell her she has a place in my heart ALWAYS!! But, I have been hurt before and it is hard to trust again. I do trust her, but, should something happen the pain and hurt and scar in my heart would remain, I do not think it could ever be the same again. BUT, this is me, other people are different.
Pain is a hard thing in love. Once a person is hurt, it does something to the Heart. I love my woman very much, I tell her this everyday. I, also, tell her she has a place in my heart ALWAYS!! But, I have been hurt before and it is hard to trust again. I do trust her, but, should something happen the pain and hurt and scar in my heart would remain, I do not think it could ever be the same again. BUT, this is me, other people are different.
Lots of sex and BJ's. Also bring home another girl for some three way action.
Care… love… feeling…
WELL DO SOMETHING SPECIAL 4 HIM.. AND TELL HIM THAT U WANT TO HAVE THAT OLD LOVE BACK..
eat his come
Sex on demand and I ain't talking about that foo-foo crap either… I'm talking straight porno action, facial, backdoor action and video taping all of it!
Set down ,talk to him and really tell him how you feel about him.It's going to take time but if you really love this man he'll find it in his heart to love you back
just tell him u love him and he should say the same about u if he loves u and just dont impress him wit sex unless u want 2
Just love him unselfishly and just love him truly he will surely understand it.
If he is really down to business and you wronged him that bad in the beginnig, good luck, because you would not get a second chance from me…KECK
just be a good woman and be faithfull and try not to let him hurt you fealings my wife stayed with threw prison and fights and cheating just be a good hearted woman if that ain't enough then he don't love you
Show up naked and bring beer.
Seriously, you could always go with the sandwiches and backrubs route. Also try looking deep into his eyes whenever you see him. Always worked for me.
Nothing you do not want to do. Jesus loves you more than any guy on Earth will. Trust HIM!
Well i loved this gal wid all my heart and she loved me too and since we had a distant relationship she slept with sum1 else… i knew something was wrong.. and i found out through sources bout what actually happened… i was gutted.. i confronted her and she told me the truth coz i said i wud break up if she didnt tell the truth… but eventually i gained my trust in her… there is nothing u can actually do to prove ur honesty apart from being loyal and loving… u can give all the s.. he needs but if he cant trust you there is nothing else that can be done.. honesty can only be proved over a period of time.. have fun… hope it goes well…
I shouldn't ask a prove of true love, that feeling it's just there and believe me if he asked you what i think he did he doesn't love you.
Love and serve him. Becoming the most obedient and gentle person you can be to him. Cook, clean, do laundry, give massages, bathe him, give him a pedicure, wipe his butt, and prove that without your relationship with him, you would be nothing.
TIME IS THE ONLY WAY TO PROVE TO ANYONE THAT YOU LOVE THEM AFTER A FALLOUT IN THEIR TRUST…IT MUST BE RE-CONSTRUCTED WITH TIME AND BEHAVIOR…YOU MIGHT HAVE TO KISS UP TO HIM FOR A TIME BUT IF HE OPENS UP TO TRUSTING YOU AGAIN… THEN NOT ONLY YOU LOVE HIM FOR STICKING WITH HIM BUT HE MUST LOVE YOU ALSO FOR RE-INSTATING HIS TRUST TO YOU AND STICKING WITH YOU…WE ALL ARE NOT PERFECT! LOVE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE..TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM AND TO FORGIVE YOU.
Nothing you do can "prove" anything. Even if you killed yourself for him (which I do NOT recommend), it still wouldn't prove that you love him… because he could still think that you're doing it out of guilt.
The main issue is that you've done something wrong first and from your question, it is clear that you are feeling guilty over it at the moment. Trust isn't something that can be won over so easily. It takes time so I would recommend that you be patient and make sure you don't do anything else "nasty" to him in the mean time.
I believe that as long as you are true to him and love him as much as he loves you, he'll feel it eventually without you doing anything specifically.
Ask him what his needs are, then show him you are committed to meeting them.
Depending on the offense, it may take years to get back, if you can. If he's staying around, just be yourself, love him and learn to read his needs. WIth luck, he'll forgive (but never forget) and you both can go on normally.
You can't really do anything then just sticking with him.
He sounds like he's willing to try again and that is HALF the fight right there. Do what you like to see from him. Attention, devotion, spend time with him, just talk and hang out. Go on dates. Show him that you're done being hurtful and that his heart can be safe in your posession. Good luck.
It is the same answer here too… It is an illusion.. Why trying to prove it?