We’ve had a reader question come in on the subject of love. Let’s take a look:
Question: I love to make or buy things for someone and show them how special they are, and that they are appreciated.
I can cook, clean,sew,knit, do washing and drying, general housework, all DIY, love to laugh and make jokes.
Yes I have been taken for a few ridesby lazy people only interested in what they can gain. I am sick of plastic people, where are the real ones who feel emotions. Should I just give it up. I am close to it now.
I can cook, clean,sew,knit, do washing and drying, general housework, all DIY, love to laugh and make jokes.
Yes I have been taken for a few ridesby lazy people only interested in what they can gain. I am sick of plastic people, where are the real ones who feel emotions. Should I just give it up. I am close to it now.
Answer: I feel your pain and frustration. There are many plastic people, yet there are also so many out there looking for good mates, makes no sense to me.
dont give up..
Someday, if you are capable of Loving another, someone will Love you
Have a Great Day
I love you.
yes someone can love you just haven't found that right person.
I believe, everybody has a person to love. Just gotta wait.
Of course. Anyone can be loved. Just wait and don't rush things. The perfect person will indeed come along.
You will eventually find the right woman. There is someone out there for everyone. I wish my husband could do half the things you do.
ABSOLUTELY!!! GIVE UP NOW!!!!
(Cause that's EXACTLY WHEN women will start falling all over you! NEVER when you WANT them to…)
Sometimes when we focus too much on needing love from someone else, it doesn't happen. Try to be good on your own and it will happen before you realize it.
don't give up. I love the qualities you have, but already taken. you will find someone that will love all you have o offer.
Poor Baby!! Try Eharmony?
Here I am!!
Dude, you have to repect yourself before others will. You've got allot of work ahead of yourself. I do not even know where to begin in how wrong you are approaching daiting.
You do not need to quit but you need someone to train you on how to date . . . in being a man. No woman is going to repect a guy that they can walk over. The ones who are going to give you any attention are looking to take advantage of you.
Again you have too many problems and I don't even know where to start. Check out the link below, this guy is right on how to date. You probably need to buy his guide, I think it'll open your eyes to what you are doing wrong.
Good luck bro.
Sure, why not? Don't give up, buddy. Just wait for that woman that was meant for you. Good luck and have a good one!………………………………………………..
GET A MAIL ORDER BRIDE IF NOT THE HIT THE GYM TO WORK OUT AND GET STRONG AND LOOK BETTER!!
No! never give up! I have made that mistake too many times and i regret it.
You will find someone, belive it. Be confident! that's all you need.
When a guy is confident, it shows.
You are looking for affirmation. You'll get it, as people here are looking for 2 points and willing to give that affirmation whether you deserve it or not.
In my opinion, your 'skills' do not define whether or not you can be loved by a woman. It's your spirit that will eventually hook or lose the woman. Quit looking for affirmation and look at yourself. If you were a woman, what about you would be attractive and what would make you leave skid marks? Take some time and spend it in introspect. You won't regret it.
don't give up. someone is out there waiting for you. You just have to look at the right direction.
sure why not..
how old are you? unless you are breathing your last breath, you should never give up. i have hope for you. there is some wonderful woman out there who will love you and appreciate you for who you are, not just what you can do…believe that God has someone special out there for you…i wish you all the happiness in the world…God bless!
I love you too!
Hi, if you are steryotyping women, such as , you only like blondes, etc. you might be missing out on your woman of love! I always wanted a man that was tall, muscular, blue eyes. I keept getting azzholes. finally, i started talking to a guy friend and things continued and we have been married for 4yrs, together for 5yrs.
time will help !
No you sound real perfect to me you just havent found the right one yet dont give up im pretty sure theres some as sweet and kind as yoou are. Id date you but Im already sprung of a boy. Sorry kisses
Not that you will never be able to meet your kind of girl, it's just that God has not sent that girl to you yet! So, just be patient!
Don't take life too serious, heres a Jack and Coke*. .. Cheers Mate!
making, buying or telling them how special they are will not cut it. No, not any woman can love you but one woman can! Use your heart but listen to your mind in your search and never give up!!!!
Your very sweet, people don't value nice and sweet to often but in the end only kindness, and kind people, who laugh and care will matter at all. God Bless you. And please don't give up, your energy matters.
My BF is just like you. He cooks, he cleans, he washes clothes, he's just awesome. He makes me laugh and does little things like making cards for me to show me how much he loves me. I really appreciate it and love him more than I ever thought I could love someone. When we met, I wasn't looking for anyone. Someone WILL love you for who you are, but just continue living your life and she'll come along when you least expect it
I think that you should not give up. It is hard to find love but keep trying!
Dont give up but also dont look to hard.
You sound like the perfect man…Do not give up God has someone for you. You will find someone!
love urself too. say no if u feel like ur used. communicate what u want too so u wont be left frustrated…theres always hope in anything if u believe it.
You sound like you have alot to offer but you need to work on your confidence a bit. I bet that if you joined a group activity of an activity that you enjoy, you may meet someone similar to you. Sometimes you just need to put yourself in the right environment. Don't give up, just change where you are looking to meet people. Good luck
not to knock you or anything, but did you ever think that you may be doing too much for these people? an awful lot of people will take advantage of you if you let them. next time instead of doing everything yourself to be romantic ask the person to join you while making dinner etc… good luck
Please, don't give up! You sound like a jewel and the right woman will eventually come along and scoop you up. You are really one-of-a-kind! Have heart…When you least expect it, she will come into your life.
Try a speed dating event… unless you are too young. Maybe even host your own event. SpeedDateAmerica.com is looking for event hosts.
i love u
If I were you, I'll spend my money first on myself to look more handsome before I spend it to other things
HEY IF YOU CAN DO ALL THAT MARRY ME LOL
JUST REMEMBER FIND A WOMAN THAT WANTS THE SAME THINGS YOU WANT CLEANNESS AND SOMEONE WHO IS TRYING TO HAVE SOMETHING IN LIFE MOVE UP THE STANDARDS FOR THE TYPE OF WOMAN THAT YOU WANT YOU ARE TOO GOOD NOT TO GET A WIFE THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR LIFE SOON
yes! any woman can love you but is that what you want, if you don't want plastic people anymore then really figure out on your own what you want. its not the plastic peoples fault that you set your standards so low and decide to just settle for whats in front of you. Remember if she looks toooooooooo good her butt isn't for you. Also look inside you … she comes when you concentrate on you first i hope that helped in some way sweetie
don't give up just yet. i bet the girl you're looking for is right in front of you. you just aren't seeing her. just give it time and things will work out for the best! good luck! if it matters i would love to have a guy who can do all the stuff you can do! you're a great guy and the girls just aren't seeing it. and they are so complete idiots!!
Don't give up, just take the pressure off of yourself. I really believe that there is a soul mate for every person. One who will make you the happiest that you can possibly be, make you whole. You just know what you want, so you don't go through what others do dating and settling for less than perfect in your eyes, and I know what you are going through because I did the same thing and it payed off. You are probably the same as me, and you won't settle for someone that will "make due". What you need to remember is that a lot of people settle and aren't happy in their relationships, hence the divorce rate, so don't strive to be like them. Just wait, it will all come together and you will find the one that will make you two one of the few couples that are truly meant for one another and work through life together 100%. Don't give up and/or lower your standards because you will end up worse off. Also it is a well known fact that those who look for love have a harder time than those who are just living day to day and have love find them. Good Luck!!
Eventually the right woman will come along. Take your time man… All good things come to those who wait. It's true.
wow if you're that lovesick and that capable of loving greatly, then EVERY woman will ADORE you.
Just be yourself. Someone right for you will come. Love is always giving but never expecting favors/payments in return. It is just rewarding. Your toil will be fruitful. Patience but never quitting.
Dude, please don't blow off my answer just because I'm a Christian. Listen to me, because whether you believe me or not, I care so much about people like you who need love. Beleive me, everyone needs it. Everyone has a built in desire for it. You won't find true happiness and love from a human until you come to grips with the fact that the Creator of the Universe thinks you're the most awesome person ever! He made you and he loves you. Man, I can't tell you how much he loves you. The Bible says in Psalms 139:13-14, "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well." Later on, in verse 16 it says, "All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." God has a plan for your life. You mean more to Him than his own life. He went through the ultimate humiliation and pain because of his amazing love for you. Why don't you try reading the Bible and maybe go to a Bible study or something just to try it out and see? I'm praying for you, man.
I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm 37 and know from experience that sometimes it takes a long time to find the right person. It's not easy finding someone to love. People are so different. The worst thing you can do is give up though because that will guarantee that you will never find the right person. Until you find that person, enjoy the ride, learn about yourself and others. When you fall in love, give of yourself totally, and if the other person can't handle it, then they are not the right person.
Don't be in a hurry to find someone. The more you will look for someone, you'll never find her. Bt when you'll least expect it, you'll meet the prefect one. I know it's hard waiting, as me too in same situation but it's like that.
Wow, would you by chance live in the Dallas-Fort Worth area? LOL. But seriously, you sound like a wonderful guy with a wonderful heart and I hope that someday soon you find that wonderful girl who can appreciate how awesome you are without taking advantage of your kindness. ^_^
So in answer to your question, YES.