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YIKES!!! Should I Continue to Date Him or Not?

Keep the dating questions coming! I liked this one:

Question: He shouts and gets angry for the slightest thing. He is very intolerant. He wants me to send him loving messages all the time, I do but not too many as we have only been dating 6 weeks. I want to take it slowly as I have been hurt before. Sometimes he cancels dates but wants me to be available all the time when it suits him. Once did not show up at all and never called me. He went off for the weekend with his friends witout telling me and had his phone switched off. I was waiting at home for his call. He never apologised but ended up shouting at me that I worried his brother as I phoned his brother asking where he was and his brother didn’t know. Yet, he wants me to be available for him when it suits him and gets angry when I am not. He gets angry easily for little things and has a temper. So I am not really sure he is a great guy …. He has no education and works in a factory and ever second week works on the night shift. I am studying for my Masters. His last girlfriends were vulgar and uneducated, one worked as a stripper. He used to work as a stripper. He is jealous and controlling and told him that I don’t need to see my friends much any more.

The first night we slept together he took me to a hotel. I dont know why he didnt take me back to his place. Ive been there since.

I told him that I had been hurt in the past and that I wanted to take it slowly. He shouted and got angry and said "Everyone has been hurt in the past. Just get over it"

Another time he got really angry because I asked to change bars and go to the bar next door as there were no seats at the bar we were at.

Once when we slept together I went to the bathroom to get condoms. Three days later he brought it up in an angry voice that I destroyed the romantic moment by going to the bathroom to get condoms.

Another time we arranged a blind date between my friend and his best friend and he got all angry and said "why would he phone her again as she won’t sleep wth him, she is just looking for friendship" and was even shouting.

SHOULD I CONTINUE TO DATE HIM? WOULD MANY WOMEN TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR?

He also told me that I talk too much about my friends and their lives and that I should only talk about me and him and our future together.

Also, some of his friends occassionally go with prostitutes even though they are married.

His photos

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Answer: Dump him.

He sounds like a hillbilly redneck or trailer trash. You’re studying a Masters, and he’s a screaming, shouting and insulting ex-stripper who works in a factory? You obviously have a thing for the bad boys. If his friends are all over the prostitutes, he probably is too, so get him dumped and find a decent guy who treats you right.

The world is full of old and bitter women who hate men, and these women were usually the ones who dated the badboys and got mentally and physically scarred by their experiences, instead of finding a good man who loves them. Take the advice now before this guy ruins your future.


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m
m

are you kidding me? hit the ground running girl. and don’t look back.

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bonjour.
bonjour.

he’s a keeper.

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Melissa
Melissa

No sweetie, it’s time to let go of him. You can do a lot better than him. From the sound of it it seems that he might get physically abusive. Just cut all ties from him. There are lots of NICE, educated and decent men out there.

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PrettyVampie
PrettyVampie

ok..i would leave as soon as he started all of this

Don’t put up with this, you don’t have to and he don’t deserve you at all if he is gunna treat you like this

Just get rid of him, or it might soon come to you being physically hurt.

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Thx
Thx

Run before he kills you & dump his @$$

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lovejudy76
lovejudy76

RUN,, why would you want that mess in your life, he is a nut and you should run while you still can,

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Vihervirveli
Vihervirveli

No, you shouldn’t tolerate his behavior.
Think of it this way: if you had a friend who had a boyfriend like that, what would you tell her?
My advice is, break up with him and have your male friends protect you in case he gets violent. Break up in a semi public place so there will be witnesses.

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Chelle
Chelle

Tell him you want an adult relationship and that the childish games need to stop. Tell him to get counseling or you are gone.

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rafferty
rafferty

Obviously no one else smelled troll.

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Allysayz
Allysayz

hes a control freak, you should stop dating him. if he gets mad or watever tell him to "get over it, hes been hurt in the past, so cope with this"

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Joe
Joe

It sounds to me like you’re in a pretty awful situation. If all this is true, I don’t know any girl that would put up with the antics of your boyfriend. Best of luck in a new relationship!

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jlynn
jlynn

dont continue dating him.. you may end up as a BATTERED WIFE. no offence but its true. u may regret this for your entire life if u wish to date him again and again.. he does not respects u.

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muse9488
muse9488

Read what you just wrote, where are the positives about being in that relationship?. You should get out now things are never going to change, their just gonna get worse the longer you leave it.

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anonymous
anonymous

I honestly don’t know if this is a serious question or not but you should leave him



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