What’s this week’s question? Let’s dive straight in…
Question: Would you date someone if they had been in prison, obviously not for things like rape and murder and things like that, but more for crimes such as theft or drugs, if this person had changed totally from the person they used to be ??
PS - Do you think people can really change, in regards to things like that ??
Answer: I would be, but only if they change, and yes people can change. They may still have some habits from previous times, but if they continue to try then you know that they will eventually become a great person. Just don’t move to fast with them, you don’t want to get hooked to someone who can go back to their old selves just like that. Watch them, and you just might learn something valuable.
What they did doesn’t make the deal, who they are as a person makes the deal. You could be wanted by 49 states and be a great person that’s doing it for the right reasons.
I hope people would date me, I’ve been in jail for selling drugs.
And no, I haven’t changed, I still sell drugs LOL
i think people can change but it only takes one thing to make them go back for example they steal for money then they dont you cant pay a few bills he panics and goes out and steals…
a leapord never changes its spots and a slappy never changes her knicker my point is yeah you can change but you need to make sure they dont get scared back into it
No, I would never date a criminal/ex-criminal. But I do think those kind of people can change, the only kind that cant change is a cheater. "Once a cheater always a cheater"
I think this world would be a horrible place to live in if we didn’t believe that people could change and if we didn’t give people second chances. I believe people can change and better themselves. However, only if they want too. I don’t think they can be forced into it.
It depends on the circumstances, if this person had gotten a job and was doing well for themselves then of course I would. However if they were on benefits that would be a different story. Not because they have a record more for the reason that they aren’t doing anything with their lives. No ambition.
Wow Jozo, very smart to post that on the internet… idiot.
And to answer your question, it would depend on the crime. Killing someone = no, but doing things that were done by an immature person at the time like ruining property or stealing something, than probably. And yes I do believe that people can change and feel regret for doing something but in the case of murder, I’m not going to put myself in danger, no matter how much the ex-con says he’d changed.
No. Reason: the point of dating is to find someone I can marry and have kids with and raise children with. I don’t want my children’s dad to be a guy that went to prison. I don’t think I would ever trust such a guy enough to have a child with him.
People can change but only if they really want to.
I’m guessing you are asking this question because you wanna date some dude who went to prison. Please reconsider. There is a world of men out there. You can do better.
Bro I wouldn’t say you sell drugs online lol
Anyway as for the question
I would have to know them for a while. I have really strong senses about people’s personalites. If I felt I couldn’t trust them, I wouldn’t date.
And to the PS question
I don’t think most people can truly change. When put in a tough spot, people show their true colors. But some people -do- change… so that’s why we kind of have to give second chances. Just to see.
If I truly believe in my heart that this person has changed I wouldn’t hold it against him.
I don’t believe people really "change"…I think parts of them that were already there are just revealed, or become more evident.
I wouldn’t mind theft; I would mind drugs.
yes people can change if they find the right person to change for..and if you really really like them and you think they are a nice person to you and treat you right then why not
Stupid things when they were young, then maybe if they have "grown up". With drugs, no, as I don’t think many people give this up, either trading or taking, so I would give them a wide berth.