I just love answering these dating questions. Here’s another:
Question: well he relly loves me my q is does he really or is he playin me coz we hav beem datin since i was 13 now im 14 and he is 17 is there smthin wrng with our relationship?weve kissed and touched and not sex tho and we r havin a distance relationship at the moment he is in africa and im in london
Answer: Nothing wrong at all, if you like pen pals in jail.
Sounds okay, as long as no sex is involved yet. If your relationship can last the long distance thing, then you might have something real there.
Well, long distance relation ships are really hard, but if it is going alright, keep having fun with it. Though, you guys are quite a few years apart, and that's okay, but don't let him pressure you into having sex or anything you don't want to do. You're way too young to have sex because even if you want it now, you'll regret it soon after. Best of luck!
You're too young to date and too young to know what love really is. Enjoy your youth before you get caught up in all of the relationship chaos.
don't think he's playing and for your age this is a good relationship
As long as there is not sex involved, it seems okay. It is great to have a long distance relationship at your age because talking to someone you care about can help you learn about yourself.
Yeah, if you two like each other, it doesn't matter.
I am having the same problem.I asked that question yesterday.I just know that if he is nice and smart go for it.
no, he is probably dating someone in africa right now.
I would say be VERY careful. IF he is in Africa for a long time and you are in London for a long time, it does seem like you might both miss out on a lot of usual teenage fun if you are sitting around dreaming of each other rather than doing teenage things. I'd hate to invest my whole teenagerhood with someone from far away, especially one who I worry is playing me. There's too much fun out there to be had to spend my teen years worrying.
And another thing…if you really wonder if something is wrong with your relationship, there's a good chance something is. That's true whether you're 14 or 44. You have to remember that YOU get to decide if you like what is going on and if you are worried at age 14, then you will probably be much more worried later, so I'd be nervous about the relationship too. If you don't like what is going on, it's much easier to change it now than later.
And one more thing. If you do decide that the age difference is too much of a problem, and this is the right guy, life will bring you back together later.
When I was younger I cared a lot about a boy but things didn't work out because we both had some different things to do. (He lived one place and I lived another, etc.) But now many years later we met again and found out that we still care for each other, so we are working on a relationship now that the differences that caused problems before aren't such a problem. There's a big difference between a three year age difference at 14/17 than at 27/30.
And we haven't even begun to talk about what your parents think! They may be a good resource, but you would know best about that.
Good luck.
no datey, datey for 13 year old girl…….waity waity!
it all depends there are alot of things to take into consideration but before i say anything else age has nothing to do with anything don't listen to people when they say you are to young to know what love is you may not be so experienced in the field but you know what you are feeling back to what i was saying there are lots of questions to answer before you can decide for yourself are the both of you virgins if you are and he is and not just says he is that is great keep it that way if you are and he is not (most guys now a days are jerks most not all) he might be getting it some were else until he can make the big score with you (not all guys need to do it some can live without it) does he have alot of friends that are girls like i said it all depends but if you have made it this far and everything is going good and the long distance thing works out i say congratulations because if you can make it through a long distance relationship you can make it through just about anything (STAY A VIRGIN IF YOU ARE i wish i was still one)