A tough dating question this week. Let’s dive straight in
I’m have previous romantic relationships with white guys and It was hard. Now I feel like I can’t even go for my personal preference.
I bet white guys don’t even like black girls..
The central point in this is how you feel. If white guys ‘rock’ what’s the harm in dating or even marrying them? Enough black men date white girls so why is it right for them but wrong for you?
Why should you surrender to the racists out there and give up?
I am the product of cross race marriage. Lord knows it was hard for my parents in the 1960’s but the world has moved on just a little since then. Where would I be if my parents (who were married until my father died) had given up because people thought it was plain wrong?
As for the last line of your question, guys who like girls are also likely to like girls who are not from their race. White can love black and Viceversa.
you shouldn’t let ppl bug u so much. it’s your life, not theirs… people will always criticize you for something, so you might as well do what makes you happy.
so what if people are racist (thats all it is) —- i have a totally different view because all i see are multiracial couples —- dating and married —- so if you like white guys then go for it because i know i love all ladies so there will be lots of other guys that will think you are the bees knees
—- have fun
Aww please don’t think like this.
Yes, some people in this world are still racially-biased. Not exactly "racist" in the strictest sense, but definitely have some opinions about interracial dating.
My advice to you would be to be "color-blind" about who you date. Don’t date someone because of their skin color, and don’t avoid dating someone because of their skin color.
Someone good and caring will come around, and he will make your world go round.
Date whomever YOU want. You’re not dating the laws of society — you’re dating a man whom YOU like and who makes YOU feel special. If society (or "friends" or family) criticizes you or makes fun of you for dating a white man, politely tell them to phuck off.
This is a really good song about a white guy dating a black girl, but his family mock him and ostracize him for his decision to date her, but he still dates her anyway: "Heartspark Dollarsign" by Everclear.
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Well white guys( not the racist ones) like whoever they like and I am black( well light brown) and my boyfriend is white. We could careless about what other people have to say because we are in love and that’s all that matters to us. So I advise that instead of caring about other people that drink haterade daily and take their racist tablets that you just date who you want to date if that’s what makes you happy.
I know plenty of white guys love love black chicks. Don’t listen to ignorant people they are nothing but stupid. It’s not what they say it’s what you feel for someone and what you like in a guy. It’s all what you like.
Honestly you should keep an open mind.
I have interracial parents and — you’re right — it can be harder to date people unlike you, especially because of other people’s opinions. But at the end of the day your relationships should be up to you because your life is your own… not theirs.
If you meet a guy of any color and you like him there should be nothing holding you back
(and BTW my dad is white and my mom is black and he always says "once you go black you can’t go back" so there are definitely vanilla men out there who love themselves some chocolate)
Date Who Ever You Want,
Our Black Men Do It All The Time, So Why Should You Feel Criticized?
Look At All The Music Videos From Male Black Artist, You Dont See Too Many Black Women Dancin Around Anymore.
It’s Just A Change In Prefference, And Afro-American Women Have Been Less Likely To Stray Away As Much As The Men Have.
SO LOVE WHO EVER LOVES YOU !!
Where do you live? I have a white boyfriend and have dated other white guys and never had a problem…maybe you just live in a crappy neighborhood.
That’s ridiculous. I’m Chinese, and I’ve only ever dated white guys. Personal preference relaly, and although I get a lot of weird looks and talk from other people, I don’t care. I’m with my boyfriend of nearly 7 months right now, but we’re so so happy, we don’t care what anyone else thinks.
If your personal preference is to date white guys, then don’t feel like you shouldn’t be because other people keep on criticising you for it. Who is criticising you anyway? If it’s your friends and family, then shame on them - your happiness should be top of their list, so if you’re happy, they shouldn’t be saying these things at all. If it’s generally other people, then who cares, because their opinion shouldn’t matter to you and you shouldn’t take it to heart.
Don’t feel that these relationships you have with guys out of your skin shade have to be hard - the more you believe it, the even harder it will get. Relax, block out everyone else’s opinions. You’ll find the right one in the end.
Wishing you all the best.