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How Many Dates Before You Can Assume That the Girl is Your Girlfriend?

What’s this week’s question? Let’s dive straight in…

Question: Never know when is the right time-I guess I need help reading a girls mind and yes I do appreciate that i is easier said than done guys!!
Assume was the incorrect word for me to use - I really meant when is the right time to ask about it - talk about it or communicate aabout it! Well you get the drift now!!
Answer: I think it's not counted by dates,I think what really makes her your GF when she wants to be with U all times & makes U know every little bit about her life & her friends.It doesn't debend on the 1st kiss or 1st time U had sex.It depend when U both be that close not only with your selves but in puplic too.if she introduce U to her friends I think then she starts considerin' U her BF.
finally,GOOD LUCK with her.
:)

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jjsmith036
jjsmith036

from the frist time u kiss her

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yopopso
yopopso

Ask her if she considers you her boyfriend.

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burnbulb7
burnbulb7

4-5 unless she tells u different

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tprincl
tprincl

I would say at least 4. Sometimes you can tell after just one!!

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chelle
chelle

When she says so

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sweet2006_pea_20
sweet2006_pea_20

well it would help if you asked the girl i mean to be in a relationship you have to have communications and this is something you should communicate to eachother

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rachlow_01
rachlow_01

wait until u have a bond with her she will feel the same way so dont be shy

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da1udreamabt
da1udreamabt

IT IS NOT THE NUMBER OF KISSES. IT IS WHEN YOU ASK HER TO BE WITH YOU AND SHE SAYS YES.

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txhypnotist
txhypnotist

It would depend on the girl and if she is dating more than just you. That's why they called it dating!

Unless you are considered exclusive and only date each other, you would only be dating.

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ccplaya1434
ccplaya1434

when she sucks your… nvm.

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Morrowynd
Morrowynd

Never assume anything. Open it up and tell her you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend.

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sport-n-spice
sport-n-spice

Never, ever ASSUME anything when it comes to women!! Just some advice.
Also, this is a double edged sword because if you say it too soon, she could be put off by it…if you don't do it soon enough, then she will be insulted…so..I think you'd be best to say that she IS your girlfriend sooner than later!

Are you totally confused yet? :)

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E & J
E & J

You don't assume, you ask her silly.

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moogly92
moogly92

sometimes, you've got to mention about you 2 being together and then she'll understand. like ive had many guys ive supposedly went out with and didnt even know about it. so let her know in a way you want her to be your gf.

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lgrant2004
lgrant2004

its always best to ask her and never assume anything

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tinks44
tinks44

Never assume. Many people (men and women) may date more than one person at a time. If you find yourself getting intimate with someone, physically or emotionally, its a good idea to ask, then if not, discuss the possibility. Ideally, it would be better to have that established beforehand, but you never know.

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Nemesis
Nemesis

One date works for me.. but usually wait until the 2nd date to make it offical

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MAHII
MAHII

UNTIL AND UNLESS U FEEL FROM WITHIN THAT THIS IS THE RIGHT GIRL, MAY BE AT THE FIRST MEET OR THE SECOND OR SO ON. IT'S NOT THAT U KISS OR HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL AND SHE BECOMES YOUR GF.

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rednose
rednose

Never assume! Talk to the girl about it.

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DUotis
DUotis

If you are in high school, she's your girlfriend when you ask her to be and she accepts.
In college, it's when you eat more meals with her per week than with your buddies.
After college, if you have 4 dates with her before you have have 1 date with another girl, she's your girlfriend.

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Steph(China)
Steph(China)

you need 2 ask a girl if she is going out w/ u and then u know when u r going out /not

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tina
tina

i think in dates we try to be good but when u live v that person u will know better abt her.

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Hearrbroken4life
Hearrbroken4life

There should be communication between the two of you. That's something you don't assume. You know what assume spells right? You ask the girl if she wants to be in a relationship and go from there.

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Tasha
Tasha

Well I think you should just ask first of all.And if you get to the forth fifth date I would just be happy to know that she is into you to have that many dates with her and not worry about the other stuff it will come out eventually based on how open you are with her and vise versa. Godd Luck!

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sevillian16
sevillian16

Well, first of all, if she goes out on more than one date with you, it's safe to assume that she likes you. No girl would waste time with someone they could not stand. Secondly, it's all about body language, if she hugs you just to hug you, then double-check yourself. BUT, if she puts passion into hugging you, and she starts feelin on you, my friend, the time to ask her out has long since come!

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kinderella2001
kinderella2001

just ask the gurl cause alot of females just date to be dating w/ no attentions of ever settlin down.. just bring it up in a convo one day

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