We’ve had a reader question come in on the subject of dating. Let’s take a look:
Saturday . . . ask her to meet you at a park . . . one with a museum or something with recreation involved . . . like a skate park, zoo, whatever (I would perfer a museum).
Walk around . . . talking . . . take her to the museum . . . and look around . . . do not stand on her heals . . . do not get tooo close. Let her do her own thing . . . periodically act her opinion on a painting or sculpture. Most of enjoy yourself . . . and she will enjoy it too. Do not act like a know-it-all . . . even if you do.
After the museum, walk around the park . . . and grab a picnic lunch (which should be in a cooler) . . . from you car. Find a nice quiet spot . . . and relax . . . enjoy the scenery and the breeze. Talk about yourself . . . ask her about herself. If you feel up to it . . . bring a little radio . . . and play soft music.
If she would like . . . ask her if she wants to dance. Watch your hand placement . . . tooo high (I want to be just friends) - tooo low (I just want to tap that a**).
Make the date about her . . . do not brag . . . just if you do talk about yourself . . . just the highlights . . . nothing tooo important.
Basically, just keep it simple . . . and be yourself. Even if you screw up . . . that is normal . . . and she will get a laugh at it. You don't have to be Mr. Perfect . . . because she is not perfect either (even though most claim to be a prize). Treat her like a human being . . . and she may come to appreicate that.
Romance doesn't have to be fine dining and wine . . . you can be romantic jumping off a diving board into a pool and losing your shorts. It worked for me . . . mainly just be yourself . . . .
ONE THAT COMES FROM THE HEART. IF THEY SEE YOU TRIED THEY WILL LOVE IT NO MATTER WHERE YOU GO OR WHAT YOU DO. AS LONG AS THEY SPEND TIME WITH YOU. DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT.
a walk on the beach or a candlelight dinner.
candle night dinner watching the sunset.. if shez a simple gal… if shez a posh gal take her to a expensive restaurant..
Monday the 9th.
go to a resturaunt near a beach and after or before you eat take a walk on the beach, im sure you could come up with something of equalness if you just tried! i bet you gf will go nuts if she found out u did this on yahoo answers
During the day, pack a picnic and go to a quiet park. At night, go to a fancy resturant that has candles and a piano player. Then again, my guy got my heart after playing songs he made up on the guitar. And we would just go on drives in the country and talk.
It mostly depends on who you are with and what they think.
well i had a very romantic date but this would only work if you've been together awhile. i love hockey. so on valentines day we went to the hockey game and then went to the hilton accross the street where he had a room all ready filled with balloons, flowers, chocolates, cake, and champaign and a gift jewlery. it was funny to he shook the bottle before poping the cork and it flew across the room and champaign was everywhere.
When you take a girl out to eat and to play mini golf, or go to a place, where they have games and stuff where you can have fun, but still have a melo mood.
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It all depends on where you live. If you lived in Denver Colorado, it would not make any sense to tell you to take her to the beach, now would it!
Romantic date, means nothing if their is no connection with the other person. Romance, comes from the heart, if you can't think of anything, she does not mean enough to you yet.
Standing in a parking lot kissing her could be romantic, if she's into you.
Otherwise, you are just two people standing in a parking lot kissing.
Get the point!
You could take her out to dinner, then a hot air ballon ride, if she's not fearful of hights.
You could take for a flight over the Grand Canyon in a Helo.
Or a night flight to Vegas.
A day trip by private jet to Miami and go to dinner in South Beach.
The list is endless.
if one more person says candle lit dinner or walk on the beach, i'm going to shoot myself. man, i guess romance is dead.
be creative people.
here's one example, maybe not the best, but it's the only one that popped in my head in the 7.2 sec i've been typing:
how about you invite this person over for a movie.
now they think they're going to have a hum drum movie night but instead rent their favorite movie of all time (hopefully it's nice out) take the couch in your living room and the TV, set it up in your back yard, and 15 min before they get there start popping some popcorn. make sure you have blankets and pillows set out as well.
as they drive up, don't let them into your home. just take them by the hand and say, 'i want to show you something.'
it's movie night under the stars… it's almost like a drive thru movie in the comforts of your own home. s/he'll be telling everyone about something like this.
that's just one scenario.
imagine if i had 24 hours to come up with some cool thing that would surprise the hell out of them.
don't ever think you have to spend tons of money.
you have to spend some time thinking about what they would like or what would be special.
throwing money at the issue or taking them to a 'romantic' location is completely cliche.