This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:
Question: Can a Hedonist Ever Have a Loving Monogamous Relationship for Any Real Length of Time?
Answer: YES FOR A LONG TIME - ONE MONTH
- Sep
- 13
September 13, 2007
- Aug
- 21
August 21, 2007
This week’s question is as follows:
Question: What Do You Do if Two People in a Relationship Have Very Different Sex Drives???
Answer: I would say first of all evaluate yourself, are you the aggressor or the passive one? If you are the aggressor but your partner is less interested ask yourself am I doing what he/she likes to keep them interested? If your not I could be disastrous. If things start out good but turn south more than likely it's because of something you use to do that you no longer do. If its a situation where your just getting together and your very different then you must ask yourself what your in the relationship for companionship or sex? Try voicing your concerns in a round about way, maybe by hypothetically speaking or if your bold enough just come right out and ask. If you don't you'll regret it. Same goes for if your the passive one, don't do it just to please your mate if you don't feel it in your heart, not only will you feel gross, but you'll start to see that person differently and it could ruin what may be something good.
- Aug
- 15
August 15, 2007
What’s this week’s relationships question? Let’s dive straight in…
Question: im a bit lonely
Answer: Good question i think like the other girls/women said just be honest. I think it really depends on the sort of woman you go for, i mean everyone has their own personal taste so if you just act yourself and end up having loads of fun with her then you'd know you cant really go wrong because she'll like/love you for well 'just you being you'.
- Aug
- 06
August 6, 2007
A relationships question that should definitely interest you all this week
Question: I am separated from my wife for a a year and a half and I still want to make it good between us.Is there any way or hope for this?
Answer: YES!!! If only you both love each other enough to try to work things out.
- Jul
- 22
July 22, 2007
This week’s question is a good one. Let’s have a look:
Question: I've noticed in life, and in the questions/answers people post here that so many people play this dectective game when they are insecure in their relationships. Why not just come out and say: "Hey I don't feel like you are being honest with me, here's why…"? Instead people choose to rifle through their significant others's personal belongings, check cell phone messages, atempt to hack e-mai/IM passwords, pretend to be that person online, follow/stalk a person. Don't people like that reason what losers they look like? Don't they realize that the scrutiny might be what that person thrives on. I realize that it's not only women, but most of the time it is. If you don't belive look at some of the questions and anwers on here. And, I will not accept the "All men are dogs that's why…" or any variation there of as a legitimate answers.
Why not just end it and be with a person you don't have to play games with?
Why not just end it and be with a person you don't have to play games with?
Answer: Ok how about this: It's how women are!
For guys, it's 'simple' in that you all make a decision and go yep, I'd like to see her, marry her, sleep with her etc.. and you all do what you do. But then men are not that communicative or expressive and that really causes women to do dumb things.
Women, because we do feel insecure because we are 'trying to read' the opposite sex and figure out what is going on with them, analyze, investigate, and really gab to our girlfriends to 'see what they think' about a guy's behavior.
You are correct - the best answer is to JUST ASK - but we all know, that NORMALLY a man would rather cut off his arm than to see a girl/woman cry, so they avoid, ditch, don't return calls and the like and don't explain themselves to their partners either.
This is how women cope (as low as it goes) but men not communicating because they are afraid to say 'It's over' (And even when they do, sometimes we don't accept that as truth - we analyze it more) doesn't help the situation.
Basically in my view - it comes down to 'fear of rejection' FROM BOTH SIDES.. The women are trying to interpet and the men are 'avoiding' and at the end of it all - isn't that the common ground?
The lesson is - BUCK UP - When a Man says he wants out - we women need to HEAR HIM - and when a Woman doesn't trust her intuition about something that's going on, SAY SOMETHING and if you still don't trust his answer, because he's being avoidant or sugar coating…..don't reduce yourself to these tactics….NO MAN IS WORTH THAT - and if you 'find proof' he's cheating or whatever, you are just hurting yourself more - so in that case…….WALK AWAY before you stoop there.
My 2 copper.
- Jul
- 15
July 15, 2007
Well here’s a question I just had to answering straight away:
Question: Personals are a bit like cattle markets where people go shopping for other people usually on shallow criteria like height, eye color, etc.
With Chat people can really be anybody - usually a minor in a room they shouldn't be in when they ought to be doing their homework.
Yahoo!Answers gives you an opportunity to evaluate people's personality from their Q&A's as these indicate beliefs, intellegence, education and sometimes sense of humour.
Given the above which do you think provides the best possibily of making new friends?
P.S. Thanks for the alt.com suggestion to the sweet seductive lady who has sunshine in her hair 
Answer: I think it just depends on what you are most interested in. A lot of people are concerned with the shallow qualities, so personals or chatrooms are ideal for them. For me, personally, this medium is better for making friends because it gives me a glimpse into their intellect. If it was for relationship purposes, I wouldn't be so sure.
If you want a more non-traditional type of personals site, try: http://personals.theonion.com/
- Jul
- 05
July 5, 2007
Keep the relationships questions coming! I liked this one:
Question: In general u wont see a girl hanging out with a guy shorter than her.Unfortunete that at first sight wht impresses a girl is the height and look of a guy…so it doesn`t matter whether the guy is good or not.The girl is impressed with his outlook..not the real he.Even if a guy manages somehow to gain the faith of a girl who is taller than him…the question arises..whether he`ll be able to satisfy her only with his heart..
Answer: yes… yes … n yes…
- Jul
- 03
July 3, 2007
What a great relationships question:
Question: Do You Think Long Distance Relationship Works Out?
Answer: My boyfriend is at university in Leeds, I'm at university in London, and living at home. We've only been together three months, and in 2.5 months we saw each other just three times. He is currently home in London (only until Saturday!!!), living just twenty-minutes from me. We love each other very much and are both dreading him going back to Leeds, since this means I will then not see him again until the end of June due to exams. However, we both know we have a strong relationship, built on trust. We were close friends for three and a half years prior to getting together, and so know each other very well.
If you have a solid foundation to begin with then it is possible. I'm not saying it's not hard - I'm going to miss him terribly - but I know it's not forever, and when I do see him it's magical. You just have to keep in touch very well - we text constantly, and talk on the phone and MSN.
I really hope this lasts forever, and I see no reason why it shouldn't with a bit of determination
If you have a solid foundation to begin with then it is possible. I'm not saying it's not hard - I'm going to miss him terribly - but I know it's not forever, and when I do see him it's magical. You just have to keep in touch very well - we text constantly, and talk on the phone and MSN.
I really hope this lasts forever, and I see no reason why it shouldn't with a bit of determination
- Jul
- 02
I Am Loving Someone ,a Friend. He Has a Relationship I Am Married. I Don’t Know if He Loves Me Back?
July 2, 2007
Keep the relationships questions coming! I liked this one:
Question: he is someone who, don't like aswer mails. and live in a other country. we are old friends. i just want to know what he's thinking of me and if he is feeling the same. he doesen't expres it to me. my feeling is saying that he is still in love with me. how will i know. i am to afraid to ask, if i do he won't tell me. he is someone with not so many words. i am also afraid if he knows he won't stay in touch with me. i don't want to lose him as a friend.
Answer: You are wasting your time and living a fantasy. Since he lives far away, you never hear him in the toilet, he never drops his dirty socks where you have to pick them up, you don't see him talking with his mouth full and he never snores. Your husband does all of those things. You see your husband's flaws, not his.
If he doesn't answer mail he doesn't want you to write.
Give up on him, start trying to make your marriage work.
- Jun
- 25
June 25, 2007
Another relationships question has come in this week. Let’s tackle it straight away:
Question: What if Your in a Relationship and You Love Some1 Else?
Answer: Do what your heart tells you to do
