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Choose your mate wisely, make sure he's committed and respectful, make your intentions clear and as does he. Don't jump in too quick and don't be too judgmental.

With joy sometimes comes sorrow but don't deprive yourself of the wonderful feeling of being in love. What's the expression 'It's better to have love and lost than not love at all".

This breaking up and getting back together thing concerns me though, and might have something to do with it all. Sounds like something hasn't been going right in your relationship. Perhaps something neither one of you is even aware of. You might want to get some councling on this.

But you should sit down with her and talk to her about the lack of attention she's giving you. I wouldn't expect her to e-mail you back every day on her cell, and she may feel smothered by too much attention. It may be that you aren't giving her enough space, and she's withdrawn. It may also be that she enjoys your e-mails, even if she doesn't respond all the time. Talk with her about how she feels about it all, and ask her if you could improve in any area.

Give it some time and be patient, but she should do her best on this to let you know that she cares about you, and that even with the new job, she still loves you and more than intends to make time for you. This may not happen instantly, so don't be too pushy, but do be plainspoken and truthful. But, if she refuses to at least care about your feelings on this, and that not caring continues, you may want to look into finding a new girlfriend.

Obviously you are more in love with him than he is of you.

In the early parts of relationship, which you are in, the most important thing to keep the relationship going is that you put yourself first. It sounds sort of counter-productive, but you can't jump into a relationship with two feet putting the rest of your life on hold. You have to know who you are and be confident of yourself.

Confidence about yourself and your life is the key to life and also the key to having many people like you and want to be with you.

All guys and girls are attracted to people with confidence about themselves. There was something that attracted him to you in the very beginning and as Yourself gets lost and replaced by him, he is seeing less and less of the You that he was initially attracted to.

This is also why he said he wants to be friends, and do the things you did in the beginning of your relationship. He really liked you when you weren't so hung up on him. Keep Yourself in focus, then when he sees how stable and confident You are with Yourself and Your life, then he'll really see what he was missing.

So, what were you doing before/when you met him? (No, seeing someone else doesn't count.) Do those things. You remember, before you were dating him, you used to like to _______. Do that, and he'll want to be with that person again.

for me u should find a girl who wud luv u more than u do coz i think its the best way to make u feel secure in ur relationship